Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Joy and Children
LIFE AND OUR POTHOLES
Friday, April 25, 2008
ONLY YOU CAN……
Good afternoon friends….even though it is afternoon I think it is still a wonderful time for a nice rich cup of coffee! it appears to be getting colder by the hr and I, as I am sure many of you, wish the cold were gone!!! Well one of my dear readers passed a little notation on to me this afternoon and I find a world of truth in its little dialog. So read on and enjoy!!
WHO HAS BEEN HINDERING YOUR GROWTH
This is good! Timely for some ...
One day all the employees reached the office and they saw a big sign on the door on which it was written:
'Yesterday the person who has been hindering your growth in this Company passed away.
We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym'.
In the beginning, they all got sad for the death of one of their colleagues, but after a while they started
getting curious to know who was that man who hindered the growth of his colleagues and the company itself. The
excitement in the gym was such that security agents were ordered to control the crowd within the room. The more
people reached the coffin, the more the excitement heated up. Everyone thought: 'Who is this guy who was hindering
my progress?
Well, at least he died!'. One by one the thrilled employees got closer to the coffin, and when they looked
inside it they suddenly became speechless. They stood nearby the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone
had touched the deepest part of their soul.
There was a mirror inside the coffin: everyone who looked inside it could see himself. There was also a
sign next to the mirror that said: 'There is only one person who is capable to set Limits to your growth: it is YOU. Your life does not
change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your parents change, when your partner changes, when
your company changes. Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs. Examine
yourself, watch yourself. Don't be afraid of difficulties, impossibilities and losses: be a winner, build yourself
and your reality.. It's the way you face Life that makes the difference!
Anonymous
Now, isn't that wonderful? Do you see the impact that this thought could release in your life? Isn't it tremendous that how big we sometimes think we are but when you really examine things how small we really are? Friends, it has been said that you are only as you think you are. Now, many don't realize one of the most important things in life, and I can say this from personal experience that you are the only one responsible for what has happened in your life! Well ok you may or may not agree, and that is ok, why because it is a hard concept to come to grips with. I know it was for me! I didn't want to be responsible for the things that had happened in my life! You know unfortunate for my folks whom I love very dearly, I felt that they were responsible among others for the way I was. But thankfully and here again that little light of intuition came on, I saw the light!! You see I have come to the realization that I as a child would not had to suffer as many punishing consequences as I did if I had just done the right thing as I was told.
Many times I felt that was the only way to get my fair share of the attention, good or bad. Was that the right way to think? Many times(and this is just my experience with my own kids), that we get so tied up in trying to support or families, especially the father figures, that we don't have the time or energy for a whole lot of anything else; this was a large personal struggle for me because I worked so much and didn't seem to get any where, and especially with my wife and family. Now, one of my favorite sayings is IF YOU WANT THINGS IN YOUR LIFE TO CHANGE THEN YOU WILL NEED TO CHANGE THINGS IN YOUR LIFE!!! How true is that!! Would you like another little exercise that I love to do? Well even if you don't I will give it to you and let you do with it what you will! Get comfy and relax…ask your self one question what would my perfect day be like?.......now close your eyes and take a deeeep breath…..I even like to put a little soft music on, and just start to count your breaths……as you count start to let your mind wander….. Let it wander and watch the magic…….if properly executed it will tell you about you……remember what you see….feel yourself living that perfect day. All the joy and happiness that it breathes…..and if you maintain this thought and think upon it often it will get clearer and you will change, your attitude will change your life will change to a point that you will be ready to receive that wonderful blessing from God.
You may think I have went off of the deep end but you need to let your inner self have a say sometimes before you can know what goal to achieve. I personally love this little exercise…it allows you to go… explore you and your dreams. Have fun with this exercise of the mind and remember if you want change the only one that can change you is you….May God bless
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
TAKE THE EXAM….?
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
A GENUINE GIFT....
HELLO FRIENDS … I AM BACK and have a thought for you …… try this exercise with some one today and watch the magic. First let me give you a little back ground of what I am going to put you up to. Now, I am sure that you have noticed quite frequently how so many of the people in the world today are caught up in their own lives that they don't stop to appreciate their neighbor; and if they do they are usually not genuine about their appreciation. They are not genuine due to the fact that they are full of flattery and trying to gain something by it.
I once read a story of a man that went into a post office; now this man was up there in years and had lost a greater portion of his hair. As he stood in line he watched the clerk and noticed that he wasn't too excited about accomplishing his tasks; the elderly gentleman, the kind sort that he was tried to think of something to add cheer to the younger mans day. When it was his turn at the counter he said to the younger man (who wasn't that young either) he said" boy I sure wish that I had that nice head of hair, mine has gotten rather thin" the other gentleman smiled and said"thank you, many have commented on my hair, although it isn't as grand as it once was. But for my age it is still really good" and the two continued to carry on the pleasantries for a short while afterwards. As the transaction was completed, the elderly gentleman then went on about his day.
You may be asking why I put that entire story here but, I am sure you can imagine what kind of an impact those sincere words made in the other gentleman's day. He probably attended his customers for the rest of the day with more patience and respect and above all with a smile. He probably then went home and told his wife and looked at himself in the mirror appreciating him self a little more.
Sincere compliments tend to create more sincere compliments and induce a greater sense of well-being in others not only in those that you come in contact with but also in those that they come in contact with on an every day basis.
So now we come down to the exercise: during the course of your day find at least one person to give a sincere compliment to. It may be the clerk at the grocery store or convenience store, or the teller at the bank, or the attendant at the gas station. These people handle angry people everyday and a smile and a compliment go a long ways….. Make somebody's day…be contagious!!
Friday, April 18, 2008
MAGNIFICENCE AND GLORY
Monday, April 14, 2008
RIGHTS OR WRONG…..
Saturday, April 12, 2008
TALKING TO OUR SELVES.....
Friday, April 11, 2008
WELL....
Controversy & Understanding
!!!DOES WHAT!!!!
Thursday, April 10, 2008
THOUGHT
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
CONTEXT AND RELITIVITY
GOOD MORNING ALL!!!! Sorry if you felt like I was yelling at you … the truth of the matter is that I am lazy and don't like hitting the shift button J but any way for your over the coffee jitters I will. Just a few words here because I am a little pressed for time today, but I would like you to look at gal. 4 for a moment, In verse 5 Paul does use the words adoption of sons…..contextually you will see that he is speaking to the Jews that were under the law of Moses not the gentiles…..Paul was a Jew born under the law so therefore he used the word we as it also related to him and many of the people of those days. Now if you look at Romans 5:6-8 he states that jesus died for us even though we were sinners and he did so with the conviction that his sacrifice would not be wasted and that many would take advantage of it to be baptized into his salvation and grace. By being born we are given this great opportunity to be a part of this kingdom. No matter where you were born nor what race or country you are entitled to this great chance of salvation. In many instances in the bible God shows us that many of his chosen are know before birth. God knows before we are even born who is going to do his will but everyone has the opportunity at salvation now if they choose it or not is their decision. I am not saying nor have I said that we were saved from birth just that we have the right to be. Now to contradict myself a little here I do believe that from birth to the individual's inception point of right and wrong, they are not held accountable and are saved. Now that is what I think if you would let me know your thoughts and views. Have a wonderful and beautiful day….blessings and love to all. J
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
THE GIFT
Mat 7:11 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him? I love my children and want them to enjoy life and experience many, many different adventures through out their lives. I am sure that you also love your children and or families, and that we have the same common goal. Enjoyment in and of life does not mean WORLDLY PLEASURES!!!! It means the exploration of Gods majesty and magnitude, traveling to new places and exploring different cultures and rafting the canyons and the list goes on and on. I am unique I guess in the desire for everybody to see alllll that GOD has done and made for our enjoyment. I am not on an ego trip or think I need to have more or less than somebody else to be or not to be Godly. I do however think that as a person it is my duty to empower people to see the light first in their own lives and how to achieve a more colorful understanding of what God has to offer. If one looks to God and commits to him only for financial gain it will be a short lived relationship. That is why friends, I started all of this with a lesson on gratitude. First you must truly be grateful or you will never find true happiness. Then if you are truly grateful you will learn and forgive in every aspect and experience in life. At this juncture in my spiritual maturing is where I found true happiness and along with it the liberation, the freedom, the lifting of years and years of bad, angry, hateful, feelings for those I felt had wronged me, either in actions or with their spoken words, and freedom from those who had become my masters, intentionally or unintentionally. When you encounter this freedom you will not be able to see others or look upon life with the same eyes as before. Hard concept to understand I know. It is an even harder task to accomplish.... and maintain oneself at a distance due to our own desires......love and peace to all